As many of you are already aware, my #polyam family and I will be relocating to Baltimore, MD in mid-July! Due to the immense labor involved in the move, I will be taking a 30-60 day hiatus from writing.
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My girlfriend and I are poly and are both sex workers; we've recently experienced some conflict over a few things. What are some other strategies we could employ, or some self-work that I can engage in on my own to move through this particular challenge more gracefully?
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As a response to the passing of SESTA-FOSTA on Wednesday April 11th, I began working closely with Hand of Glory Printing - an independent, sweatshop-free custom printing service - to create a limited line of pro-sex work apparel for both sex workers and allies alike!
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My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, and by far it's the happiest, healthiest relationship I've been in. I'd never dated a sex worker before, but I trust her to make good decisions, and it's her body, her choice. What I DIDN'T take into account was whether or not I'd feel jealous about her interactions with other men (I'm a straight guy). We're otherwise monogamous, and recently she suggested opening up the relationship - allowing ME to see other people - to help ease my jealousy. Help!
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On Tuesday April 10th, I was fired by the digital sex education platform responsible for 1/4 of my income, O.school. I had been a part of the O.School "family" since the company's inception in late 2016, and until this week had been one of their most committed and celebrated educators.
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Here’s the thing, reader. You’re not “new to polyamory”; you’re polyamorous under duress. Which, in essence, means you’re monogamous but are being subjected to an ultimatum by a person who is taking advantage of your obvious devotion to them. That ultimatum is “polyamory or bust”. This is a manipulation, not a relationship, and it’s definitely not the kind of behavior that you want to continue greenlighting.
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I have never disliked any of my partner’s partners until now. I don’t enjoy their company, they are newish to poly and get weird and prickly at group functions which is hard on the whole polycule - but most of all I like my partner less when they are with this person. Help.
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I'm a Black woman. In a culture of #polyamorysowhite, how do I find community that's reflective of ME?
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If your primary partner has always maintained that they have no interest in meeting the outside folks you indulge in - and you agreed to that boundary at the onset of your relationship - then trying to turn everyone into a big happy family down the road may very well prove fruitless, and you can’t very well blame your partner for that!
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A few weeks ago I made a post on Facebook asking my communities to weigh in on the challenges inherent in maintaining multiple sexual and romantic relationships while on a fixed income. Whether we want to admit it or not, the very ability to practice non-monogamy is a privilege, significantly impacted by socio-economic class.
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