I spent years beating myself up, wondering what I could have done better. Recently I received an apology via email from Z, saying that she had been reacting to Q’s disclosure that her and I engaged in “mommy play”. Apparently Z was under the impression that that kind of dynamic was exclusive and special to her relationship with Q. Q had broken an agreement, and Z took it out on me.
Read MoreMy need for sex is higher than his, and I’ve been feeling like sleeping with other people if he doesn’t want to have sex with me as often, although not at the expense of our relationship. What is the best way to push this conversation along without seeming like I am trying to make someone do something they don’t want to do?
Read MoreThere’s no “right” way to do polyamory, but there are many, MANY “wrong” ways! Some of the points below are more generalized “dating red flags” that apply just as much to non-monogamy as they do to monogamy!
Read MoreThink of non-monogamy as an umbrella, and underneath the umbrella are the many "genres" of non-monogamy. These genres encompass both non-monogamous identities and non-monogamous lifestyles.
Read MoreIf living in an open relationship where there are two people and they're okay to date other people outside of their main pair, do they eventually end up having less, and less, and LESS sex with each other?
Read MoreMy partner has mentioned feeling ready for this move for a long while & is frustrated with my moving slow to figure out how to make it work for me as well. Any advice for how to move forward together?
Read MoreI’m in a hetero relationship with a woman but I’m also attracted to her best friend. We are all old friends. How do I persuade them both to have a threesome with me?
Read MoreI sometimes feel excluded and/or awkward having to be completely not-intimate with the husband. I don't know how to move forward and get to a place where I am not jealous or, frankly, how I can interact with his husband without it being forced/awkward. Help!
Read MoreGuys, I am SO EXCITED! This is my first LIVE event, and I'm bringing two other local experts on stage alongside myself to answer YOUR NON-MONOGAMY QUESTIONS in real time!
Read MoreI fell in love with someone whose partner doesn't seem cut out for polyamory. We're in love but this guy is his life partner and neither of us wants to upset him. How can I get along with my metamour?
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